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Type(s) de contenu et mode(s) de consultation : Texte noté : sans médiation
Auteur(s) : Kishimi, Ichirō (1956-....). Auteur du texte
Koga, Fumitake (1973-....)
Titre(s) : The courage to be disliked [Texte imprimé] : the Japanese phenomenon that shows you how to change your life and achieve real happiness / Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
Traduction de : Kirawareru yūki
Publication : New York (N.Y.) ; London ; Toronto : Atria books, 2018
Description matérielle : 1 vol. (xviii-270 pages) ; 22 cm
Note(s) : Original sorti en 2013
Traduit du japonais
"The Courage to Be Disliked, already an enormous bestseller in Asia with more than
3.5 million copies sold, demonstrates how to unlock the power within yourself to be
the person you truly want to be. Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three
giants of twentieth century psychology, The Courage to Be Disliked follows an illuminating
conversation between a philosopher and a young man. The philosopher explains to his
pupil how each of us is able to determine our own life, free from the shackles of
past experiences, doubts, and the expectations of others. It's a way of thinking that
is deeply liberating, allowing us to develop the courage to change, and to ignore
the limitations that we and other people have placed on us. The result is a book that
is both highly accessible and profound in its importance. Millions have already read
and benefited from its wisdom. This truly life-changing book will help you declutter
your mind of harmful thoughts and attitudes, helping you to make a lasting change,
achieve real happiness, and find success" ; "The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up
for the mind, The Courage to Be Disliked is the Japanese phenomenon that shows you
how to free yourself from the shackles of past experiences and others' expectations
to achieve real happiness"
Sujet(s) : Actualisation de soi
Réalisation de soi
Affirmation de soi
Indice(s) Dewey :
158.1 (23e éd.) = Amélioration et analyse personnelles
Identifiants, prix et caractéristiques : ISBN 9781501197277. - ISBN 1501197274
Identifiant de la notice : ark:/12148/cb47127959v
Notice n° :
FRBNF47127959
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Table des matières : The first night: deny trauma.. The unknown third giant -- ; Why people can change
-- ; Trauma does not exist -- ; People fabricate anger -- ; How to live without being
controlled by the past -- ; Socrates and Adler -- ; Are you okay just as you are?
-- ; Unhappiness is something you choose for yourself -- ; People always choose not
to change -- ; Your life is decided here and now -- ; The second night: All problems
are interpersonal relationship problems.. Why you dislike yourself -- ; All problems
are interpersonal relationship problems -- ; Feelings of inferiority are subjective
assumptions -- ; An inferiority complex is an excuse -- ; Braggarts have feelings
of inferiority -- ; Life is not a competition -- ; You're the only one worrying about
your appearance -- ; From power struggle to revenge -- ; Admitting fault is not defeat
-- ; Overcoming the tasks that face you in life -- ; Red string and rigid chains --
; Don't fall for the "life-lie" -- ; From the psychology of possession to the psychology
of practice -- ; The third night: Discard other people's tasks.. Deny the desire for
recognition -- ; Do not live to satisfy the expectations of others -- ; How to separate
tasks -- ; Discard other people's tasks -- ; How to rid yourself of interpersonal
relationship problems -- ; Cut the Gordian knot -- ; Desire for recognition makes
you unfree -- ; What real freedom is -- ; You hold the cards to interpersonal relationships
-- ; The fourth night: Where the center of the world is.. Individual psychology and
holism -- ; The goal of interpersonal relationships is a feeling of community -- ;
Why am I only interested in myself? -- ; You are not the center of the world -- ;
Listen to the voice of a larger community -- ; Do not rebuke or praise -- ; The encouragement
approach -- ; How to feel you have value -- ; Exist in the present -- ; People cannot
make proper use of self -- ; The fifth night: To live in earnest in the here and now..
Excessive self-consciousness stifles the self -- ; Not self-affirmation, self acceptance
-- ; The difference between trust and confidence -- ; The essence of work is a contribution
to the common good -- ; Young people walk ahead of adults -- ; Workaholism is a life-lie
-- ; You can be happy now -- ; Two paths traveled by those wanting to be "special
beings" -- ; The courage to be normal -- ; Life is a series of moments -- ; Life like
you're dancing -- ; Shine a light on the here and now -- ; The greatest life-lie --
; Give meaning to seemingly meaningless life.
Introduction ; The first night: Deny trauma ; The second night: All problems are
interpersonal relationship problems ; The third night: Discard other people's tasks
; The fourth night: Where the center of the world is ; The fifth night: To live in
earnest in the here and now ; Afterword.
